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Why It's Important to Have Real Male Friends
How to Talk to Guys
In our first away game, I packed into a car with three freshman players. Nervous, I sat on my hands and hardly said a word. To my luck, the freshman was just as anxious. From the driver’s seat, the team captain complained into his phone, “This is so boring. It’s silent. I am talking to myself.” This was the first of many silent moments, but soon I learned to relax and became the token girl of the gang. Later on in life, this prepared me for many a male-dominated work environment. Being the only woman in the room was no longer an issue due to many nights bro’ing out with the hockey team. In all my relationships, whether professional or personal, I became a lot more comfortable speaking with men. (Fun fact: guys are just as tense - or even more-so - speaking to us as we are to them.) I learned to ignore the nervy, awkward introductions and even adopted a few strategies for diverting conversations from sports (about which I know nothing).How to Make Skippy
As part of my initiation as manager, I was taught the magical recipe for “Skippy” - a highly alcoholic, nuclear-colored beverage that tastes like a mound of watered-down Starbursts. The recipe:- 1 30 racks of beer (poured against the edge of the water cooler in order to minimize carbonation loss)
- 1 canister of Old Country Lemonade powder
- 2 liters Mountain Dew
- 1 handle vodka
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